Boundaries
I promised myself that this year any connections that are over are to stay that way and any I reconnected with last year, if things revert back to how they once were, I'm ending them. I'm tired of the patterns and emotional rollercoaster that always happens. Even just waiting for the reconnection to just end. There's a reason for the connections not lasting and it's boundaries. Yes you are going to piss people off when you decide to fully cut the cords that bind, however you are embracing new and better connections when you do so. I just cut off my last yo-yo relationship. I have him a chance in August last year. Last time I spoke to him was in October. Nothing from him. No Happy Halloween No Happy Thanksgiving No Merry Christmas (even though in 2022 he got mad at me for not wishing him a Merry Christmas due to his disappearing acts.) No Happy New Year Wished him a Happy Birthday on January 8th, no response. No Happy Birthday on my b...